Tag Archive - goals and dreams

Bite the Bullet

BiteThe Bullet 300x290 Bite the BulletKnow what you want to achieve. Make a list, if you wish, of the qualities you want to have as a strong business leader. Believing in yourself, knowing who you want to be, is key to success.

Take a moment today and make a list of both short term goals and long term goals.

Now take it a step further. Beyond knowing what you want to be, you have to know which actions will take you there. Your actions have to reflect your confidence in yourself. To become a strong leader, you have to know what kind of leader you want to be and then know how to achieve your ends…produce results…staying true to that idea.

By formally defining your goals and dreams, you are taking the initial steps in turning them into a reality.

After a brief thread of comments on Facebook between an old friend, Jennifer Oakes, she reminded me of a Stoic I studied for a Greek Mythology class once; Epictetus, who uttered his famous line “first say to yourself what you would be, and then do what you have to do” in the first century BC, began his life as a Roman slave. But, that didn’t hinder him. He was determined to stand out from the crowd. He studied the Stoic philosophy and in a few years founded his own philosophical school in Greece, where he achieved fame. Epictetus believed that, despite adversity, you can be a master of your own life by harnessing strength of will and self-knowledge. Epictetus might very well have originated the familiar refrain we hear today: “Bite the bullet.” Regardless of how it’s said, you simply need to get the job done. Just do it.

Ask yourself: “What am I doing today that is creating my tomorrow and how can I make it better?”

Act Soon

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To get started, you must have a destination.

We need to be aware of what we are trying to do, we need to be aware of what we have at our disposal, of what we have for our goals and dreams. I think that goal setting is important because I think we all need to know what we are trying to do. Why am I here…what am I trying to do? Goal setting is absolutely vital to achieving anything. We have to know which direction we are running before we take out first step. Goals need to be specific. A goal without a date is a wish. Without at a date, it takes no effort to set a goal. We have nothing on the line if we just say “one day…some day…eventually I will…”. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I have yet to find the “Oneday” listed on a calendar…anywhere! So, if we are setting a goal, we need to make sure we set a date for us to accomplish it by. Leaders cannot pursue generalities. It’s really hard to get excited about “vauge”. How will we ever know if we are getting closer to our goal if we don’t know what we are trying to do, and when.